A eulogy

Aug. 25th, 2008 01:36 am
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Mr. Jerry Brown first snuggled his way into our lives on a sunny afternoon in the summer of 2005. Brian and I were at the shelter to adopt our first cat, his large and very sweet poodle having passed away shortly before; and while we didn't bring him home that trip, he stayed so cozy in our hearts that when we saw him at the shelter six months later there was nothing for it but to take him home. He was eight years old.

We knew very little about his former life; the closest hint on his paperwork was the "Owner relinquish: Moving" tag. We felt safe in assuming his had been a low-key and happy existence, for he was a low-key and happy cat - always the first to purr when you petted him, and always happy to be picked up and snuggled. His purr, like the rest of him, was large and strong - when he was really comfortable he could sound like a small motorboat.

An intelligent and talkative cat, he soon found ways to train his humans to give him treats, snuggles, and gooshyfood. One of his favorite signals to be picked up was a trilling meow combined with an arching of the back; similarly, when he wanted his window open, he would come yowl at us until we got up and followed him into the bedroom. He also quickly learned that Brian, the gooshyfood dispenser, could not sleep through the sound of the window being pawed at.

While he and his adopted brother Dexter were never close, they eventually learned to respect each others' space. It was humans, though, who were his real loves. It didn't matter if they were cat people or non-, if you had a lap and hands to pet him you were okay in his book. One of my favorite memories will always be him sitting in our friend Adam's lap (Adam, the consummate dog person), gazing adoringly into his eyes while purring and being petted and equally adoringly gazed at. ("I thought you weren't a cat person?" I asked Adam. "Mr. Jerry Brown is a very special cat," he replied.) People remembered him, too; more than once he met someone who had worked at the shelter when he was there, and they almost always remembered him and were glad to see how happy he was.

He loved everyone, but it was Brian with whom he was especially close. Many a time he would watch a movie or "help" play a game with Brian on the couch. And more than once I woke up to find him sitting on the pillow above Brian's head, keeping watch over him while he slept.

Mr. Jerry Brown died very early this morning of hyperthyroidism. The vet did what she could, but by the time she saw him things had advanced to the point where he had lost his sight and his metabolism was in overdrive. We got him medication and brought him home, but he was just struggling all evening, with no eyesight and a hyperventilating system; and a couple of hours ago he gave up.

Given how miserable he was, I'm relieved for him. But we will both miss his big fuzzy happy self just terribly.


Date: 2008-08-25 10:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tygenco-x.livejournal.com
Hugs for you both.
Strangely I'm finding myself at a lack of good words for all of this. You guys have my hugs and condolences, and as soon as I find better words, I'll send them on.

Date: 2008-08-25 02:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
Words aren't necessary. I appreciate that you keep us in your thoughts.

Date: 2008-08-25 10:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] my-aerie.livejournal.com
*hug*

I'm sorry sweetheart, pass a hug on to Brian for me as well.

Date: 2008-08-25 02:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
Thank you. He appreciates the sympathy, as do I.
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Date: 2008-08-25 02:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
We did our best. He certainly seemed like a happy cat until a couple of days ago. Hopefully he's happy now, too.

Date: 2008-08-25 12:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sigma7.livejournal.com
So sorry for your loss -- but I know Mr. JB enjoyed being a part of your family.

Date: 2008-08-25 02:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
I'm just sure he did. We got three years with him - that's a lot more Brown than most folk ever get, so we should count ourselves lucky. :)

Date: 2008-08-25 01:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] flewellyn.livejournal.com
NOOO! I was hoping he'd be okay!

I'm really sad now. He was such a sweet cat, I was hoping to meet him one day...

Date: 2008-08-25 02:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
I'm sure he would've loved you. He loved everyone. :)

Date: 2008-08-25 03:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cyranocyrano.livejournal.com
My best to the family. I'm sorry I didn't get to meet him.

Date: 2008-08-25 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
Thank you. I'm sorry you didn't get to meet him too.

Date: 2008-08-25 03:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joyfulleigh.livejournal.com
Lovely eulogy.

I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your cat. I know that he'd been ill for a while now, so I'm glad his suffering has come to an end and he's gone to the Rainbow Bridge.

Hugs to you.

L.

Date: 2008-08-25 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
I'm relieved for him, but we're just going to miss him like crazy. Thank you for your thoughts.

Date: 2008-08-25 07:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
I know he loved you. I'm glad you got to love him too.

Date: 2008-08-25 06:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moonwick.livejournal.com
Meow. :(

Date: 2008-08-25 07:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
Miaou. :(

Date: 2008-08-25 09:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] decibel45.livejournal.com
Sorry to hear that. :(

Date: 2008-08-26 05:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
It's unfortunate and sad, but we'll be okay. I'll miss him though. :(

My Furry Grandpud

Date: 2008-08-26 02:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] faith-rose08.livejournal.com
Rose and Brian, I was hoping all day that "no news was good news" from you guys. I have tears running down my face at the passing of one of my adorable "grandpuds". Thank you so much for sharing Mr. Jerry Brown and his adventures with me! You are all in my heart and prayers. Love, Mum

Re: My Furry Grandpud

Date: 2008-08-26 05:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
Thanks, Mum. I really loved the e-card you sent. I love you.

Date: 2008-08-26 05:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] onionhead.livejournal.com
Awww. Sorry for your loss :(

Date: 2008-08-26 05:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roseneko.livejournal.com
Thank you.

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