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Oct. 18th, 2004 12:04 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
missroseroseLoving someone really sucks.
When you love someone and are intimate with them, it hurts. It hurts because you feel open and vulnerable, and you just know that, one day or another, intentionally or not, the other person's going to stomp all over that vulnerable part with iron-shod shoes.
Why? Because we're human, and that's what we do. We hurt people. We don't always mean to (though sometimes we do), but we fuck up and we hurt people. We either do something stupid, or refuse to do something that needs to be done, and we hurt each other.
And it really, really fucking hurts.
I can only hope that that vulnerable part will thicken over, eventually...
When you love someone and are intimate with them, it hurts. It hurts because you feel open and vulnerable, and you just know that, one day or another, intentionally or not, the other person's going to stomp all over that vulnerable part with iron-shod shoes.
Why? Because we're human, and that's what we do. We hurt people. We don't always mean to (though sometimes we do), but we fuck up and we hurt people. We either do something stupid, or refuse to do something that needs to be done, and we hurt each other.
And it really, really fucking hurts.
I can only hope that that vulnerable part will thicken over, eventually...
