I think the trick to finding someone right for you is making sure that you are right for someone else. Now that you've realised that women suffer from those things, watch out for them in yourself. Be wary of your own human stupidity that can (and almost always will) screw up relationships. Also,
("I want you"/"Well I don't want you anymore" to "Fine, I don't want you"/"Okay now I want you back" to "Alright, you can have me"/"I don't think I can trust you anymore"...you get the deal) = Perfect example of what I'm talking about when I say human stupidity. It's human nature to always want what you can't have... I went through a similar thing with my best friend before we finally got pissed off and gave up... every time she was in a relationship, I'd want her. Every time she wasn't, she'd want me, and I wouldn't want her as anything more than a friend. But in the end I think we would never have worked together, so the wanting what you can't have thing doesn't work.
Apologies. I'm just rambling really, sorry if it sounds like bad pseudo-psychology. My point was that very few people in the world are at all worth your time, and maybe before trying to find someone that is, you should be absolutely sure that you're not going to make it all go horribly wrong. Call me naive if you want, but I think you have all the time in the world to do so... if it was meant to happen, it's going to happen.
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Date: 2004-07-27 10:21 pm (UTC)("I want you"/"Well I don't want you anymore" to "Fine, I don't want you"/"Okay now I want you back" to "Alright, you can have me"/"I don't think I can trust you anymore"...you get the deal) = Perfect example of what I'm talking about when I say human stupidity. It's human nature to always want what you can't have... I went through a similar thing with my best friend before we finally got pissed off and gave up... every time she was in a relationship, I'd want her. Every time she wasn't, she'd want me, and I wouldn't want her as anything more than a friend. But in the end I think we would never have worked together, so the wanting what you can't have thing doesn't work.
Apologies. I'm just rambling really, sorry if it sounds like bad pseudo-psychology. My point was that very few people in the world are at all worth your time, and maybe before trying to find someone that is, you should be absolutely sure that you're not going to make it all go horribly wrong. Call me naive if you want, but I think you have all the time in the world to do so... if it was meant to happen, it's going to happen.